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Through being interviewed while in the closet, the avenue for sharing your truth has been made clear. After that initial deep breath before the questions start, you begin to feel yourself start to breathe normally again, perhaps better than you had before, despite there still being a small sense of reluctance to spill the beans to someone you have never met.
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I can sense their nervousness. There's always a big sigh and then a single word or a short sentence.
If I sense they don't know what else to say, I ask if they will elaborate on what they've just said, but most times people keep talking for a good while. I can then sense the excitement they feel about getting to talk about something that has seemed like they would never get to speak these words, and the metaphorical giant boulder tied to their back finally crumbles away.
I start the questions with fear and limits, and Anonykous end on joy and comfort.
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That first question I want them to answer spontaneously and from the heart. For the last question I want them to reach deep within their souls and think on the answer awhile, because sometimes while living a life in fear you forget what truly makes you feel comfortable. I like to think this helps them by ending on that note.
I like to think every one of ib is smiling as we say our goodbyes and they hang up their phones. I'm probably right.
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It can be even more complicated for those who identified as straight, then lesbian or gay, and then bi. I can't imagine having had to hole up in two different closets at two different points in one's life.
The bravery of our community, even in the closet, is extraordinary. But our reluctance to be ourselves, as bi folk, is equally astonishing.
But, I get it. I remember being in the closet. I remember how terrified I was to tell a single soul my satisfying secret of sexual longing. I forget how sad and destructive in my mind I was back then, the thoughts of just wanting to waste away or forgo existence, hoping that would bring some semblance of peace to a perpetually locked up heart, until I read some of my old journal entries that reminded me of how low Mwm wanting discreet Green Bay can get when you feel you don't have the world on your side.
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I've been there. I'm in my fifth year of being completely out as a bi man and I have to say, it's hard to think of why I was in the closet in the first place because things aren't as bad as I thought they would be. It helped that when I turned forty I magically stopped caring about what people thought concerning my sexuality. I'm not so completely naive though, I recognize that my experiences after coming out may not be the same for everyone around the world, in societies and spaces so different from the ones Im looking right now in Tuscaloosa Alabama lived through.
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What if we all shared how grateful we are that we are bi? What if chag talked about how enriching it is to us?
What if, through our stories, the rest of the world can realize we are perfect the way we are as bi people. What I'm saying is: by talking openly about being bi in this case in an anonymous setting as an incognito interviewee in an article read by people around the worldfolks around the globe and generation after generation of those who come after us have no misconceptions about McComb sluts looking for sex hardware, place no stigma on us, and ultimately accept us.
That's what I hope happens because of these interviews.
I hope people read about our fears and excitements. It's fun to hear, for me.
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