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By Annakeara Stinson April 17, When people from different parts of your life meet and form their own relationships with one another, it can feel a bit weird, even if it seems like that should be a good thing. Be it tinges of jealousy for their newfound friendships, or the sometimes arduous process of navigating new boundaries, these circumstances tend to make you feel all the feels. And yes, this can even happen in your very own living situation, when your new roommates and your pals meet Housewives want nsa ME Bradford 4410 really hit it off. But learning how to deal with your roommates becoming friends with your friends is not impossible. It just takes a little bit of understanding on your part, and some good ol', healthy communication skills from everyone involved. Above all, it's important to not be too hard on yourself for feeling weird about these newfound friendships.

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Trust me, I've experienced this in a variety of ways: I've dealt with having a crush on a roommate who seemed more interested in pursuing my friends than me. I've been low-key annoyed to come home and find my bestie hanging out in my living room when I wasn't the one who invited her there. Staart

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And yes, I've been on the other side of this struggle, too, where I'm the one who gets close with one of my roommate's Housewives looking sex Dexter Iowa, and they get a little salty over it. In the end, though, I got through all of these situations — admittedly, with varying becominb of emotional messiness. But hey, if I can do it, you can too, especially with the advice of some experts.

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Here's how you can handle those weird feels when worlds collide, and your roommates start becoming friends with your friends. Friendd About Why It Bothers You In The First Place Texas-based counselor Heidi McBain suggests asking yourself some questions about what, precisely, seems to bug you so much about the idea of your friends getting chummy with your roommates.

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Get Some Outside Input If you're really struggling with this, and it's bothering you all the time, try to get a little outside perspective on the situation. The fear of being left out in the midst of these newfound friendships is totally normal, but if it friendx something that you just can't shake, McBain says you should find someone totally neutral to give you some advice on the matter. Participate In Activities All Together Giphy Try to participate in some fun with both of them, even if you feel like totally ditching.

If you feel hurt because your friendship is suffering, then be honest about that, too. Talk It Out Giphy Remember, these people care about you, and they are still your friends, which means you can, and should, talk Staart them about what's going on with you, says McBain. Most people, I thought, make friends without a strategy Canada mature thick masseuse in game plan.

Those with social anxiety struggle because they are in their head and second guess themselves. I felt ready to hear what Bayard had in store becominh me and was happy to know that there were only three challenges she wanted me to tackle over the next month to help me make friends.

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I wrote each challenge down and devoted at least one week to following through on them. The first thing Bayard advised me to do was take inventory of people I know and who they know. Who are the people you sometimes see at the criends parties and share mutual friends, but never have one-on-one conversations? Start there.